I approach counselling with a deeply client-centred perspective, valuing each person’s unique journey. In this collaborative process, you hold the reins in setting the goals, boundaries, and direction of our sessions together. I firmly believe that our life challenges are woven through our experiences in relationships, diverse situations, and various institutions, shaping both adaptive and maladaptive aspects of our being.

As a counsellor, I aim to create a safe and trusting space where you can explore, grow, heal, and embrace positive transformations. I am committed to assisting you in cultivating a more compassionate and deep connection with yourself and your relationships with others. I believe each individual has inherent strength and resilience, but sometimes, we get stuck. My role is to provide support as you reconnect with those inner resources and find your way back to where you want to be.

I consider it a privilege to be entrusted with my client’s stories. I am grateful to walk alongside you in your healing, witness your growth and wound mending, and help you rediscover your most authentic self.

My background is in engineering, a profession I chose because I wanted to contribute positively to the world, and I happened to be good at math and science. I appreciate my engineering experience and all the technical skills I have developed. However, the work had always been too disconnected from those I hoped to help. This realization prompted me to embark on the journey to become a professional counsellor and pursue a Master of Counselling. Initially, I focused on supporting individuals navigating grief, traumatic loss, suicidal ideation, mental illness and mentorship. Over time, I have accumulated experience on a variety of issues, including life transitions, anxiety and depression, trauma, and relationships.

I look forward to connecting with you.

Warmly, Nicole

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I believe that all individuals have the capacity for change when given the opportunity, tools, and guidance. My approach is collaborative, client-centered, and eclectic, drawing on cognitive, psychodynamic, and somatic approaches to therapy. As a counsellor, I focus on creating a safe space filled with respect, encouragement, and support. In this calming and reassuring environment, clients are invited to examine patterns, behaviours, responses, boundaries, and relationships, that they may want to alter, understand, or reflect upon. I am interested in working with adolescents and adults of all ages, and with a variety of concerns.

Couples counselling - if this is your first session with me, please book in for a 100 minute initial couples counselling session

I welcome clients with diverse backgrounds and needs and provide counselling in English and Russian.

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My own healing as well as my past experiences working with survivors of sexualized violence guides my passion in working with anyone who is living with the impacts of being hurt. I believe that, for many of us, painful experiences that we had growing up or during our adult lives may impact us in ways that we do not fully understand. My hope is to create a soft place for you to land where you feel safe enough to explore the roots of what led you into therapy. I see counselling as a container for your healing where there is space for you to unpack the feelings, thoughts, behaviours, and relationships that you may be struggling with. Throughout this process, I gently guide and support you as you turn towards your inner world and experience how liberating (and sometimes exciting!) it can be to tend to your pain with curiosity and compassion. In my healing journey from trauma and substance use, I’ve also learned that counselling can be joyful as it moves us towards greater insight and deeper connections with both self and others.

When working one-on-one, I draw primarily from Internal Family Systems (IFS) or “parts work,” intersectional feminism, and somatics. This means that I assist you in exploring the parts of yourself that need attention and acknowledging all the creative ways that you have coped with struggle. I also understand that the different identities you hold may influence the way you move through the world and I believe in the importance of unpacking your experiences with that context in mind. During this exploration, I strive to support you in deepening your awareness of what’s happening in the present moment by noticing what you may be experiencing in your body and accessing your inherent wisdom there. When working with couples, I lean on Relational Life Therapy to support you and your partner in practicing skills that can shift you away from old patterns and towards closeness and connection.

I was raised primarily by my mother and grandmother in a single household. It was these women who taught me that genuine warmth, compassion, and humor can create space for trust and healing to occur, and I strive to express these qualities in our therapeutic relationship. Before I returned to school to practice therapy, I spent six years in different roles at a local rape crisis centre working with women, trans, non-binary, and gender non-confirming survivors of sexual violence. There, I had the opportunity to learn from some of the wisest and most generous people committed to building a better world and experienced what an honour it is to be a part of one’s healing. I am also a white, cis-gendered, queer, able-bodied, neurotypical, third-generation settler on the occupied lands of the xʷməθkʷəy̓əm (Musqueam), sḵwx̱wú7mesh (Squamish), and sel̓íl̓witulh (Tsleil-Waututh) Nations. I approach all my work with thoughtfulness around social and cultural context and pay attention to the ways in which access to power and privilege can shape relationships. I deeply believe all healing takes place in relationships in one form or another and that our own healing supports our loved ones and communities. On one last personal note, I feel most at home with myself when my feet are on the earth, particularly in forests or when I’m immersed in the ocean. In my downtime, I’m often hanging out with my cat in the garden, making playlists, or cooking for the people that I love. I’m also often caught up in a podcast or a book that captures the complexity and beauty of what it means to be alive.

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Works with individual clients and couples

Lo is unavailable for new clients

My Approach to Therapy

The human experience can sometimes feel messy and painful, but we don’t have to navigate it alone.

I take a holistic approach to therapy. This involves working together to support all aspects of yourself - thoughts, emotions, bodily feelings, relationships, and social/cultural contexts - to come into alignment and harmony. In my 15 years of teaching mindful movement, including rehabilitative yoga and pilates, I have come to see that our mind-body systems hold inherent wisdom and capacity for healing. In therapy, we can access this inner wisdom to help guide our way through some of the darkest challenges.

I take a client-centered, relational, and trauma-informed approach to care. And while the space I hold is compassionate and collaborative, I also provide guidance and perspective to support your growth when appropriate.

My own experiences of walking with grief and loss, chronic pain, and trauma have led me to this work. I hope to provide you with a gentle space where you can feel the safety and support needed to not only take the next steps along your healing journey but to thrive in your life.

It is an honour to walk alongside you.

As a couples counsellor, I welcome and celebrate all relationships including LGBTQIA2S+, polyamorous, and kink.

Theories Influencing My Approach

For individual therapy, I am primarily inspired by Internal Family Systems (IFS), which help us to understand and appreciate all the various parts of ourselves, bringing aspects of conflict back into harmony. I am also influenced by Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), which focuses on processing, regulating, and transforming emotional experiences. More broadly, my approach is influenced by somatics, social justice, and attachment theory. Somatic approaches incorporate the wisdom of the body in the therapeutic process, and social justice approaches our social and cultural environment. Attachment theory helps us understand how childhood relationship patterns affect how we react to things today and provides the opportunity to heal through new experiences of more secure (safe and loving) relational patterns. I am also a certified Life Coach, offering neuroscience-based solutions-focused techniques to help people visualize and work towards their dreams and aspirations when they are ready.

In couples therapy, I am primarily influenced by Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), which encourages the development of loving and safe emotional bonds. I am also influenced by Relational Life Therapy (RLT), which focuses on improving relationships and personal growth through exploring patterns of behaviour and communication. I have done level one training in RLT as well as the Gottman Method.

A Bit About Me Outside of Therapy

My full name is Loretta Laurin, but you can call me Lo. I was born and raised in the Vancouver area on the traditional lands of the Musqueam, Squamish, and Tsleil-Waututh Nations. My mother is a Chinese immigrant, and my father was Quebecois (French-Canadian). I have two older brothers, two sisters-in-law, and three nephews who I adore. I live collectively in East Van with two of my best friends and a cat.

I have worn a lot of different hats throughout my life and find myself touching many different community circles. I am always a student, with a thirst for learning, especially about relationships and communication. I thrive when I’m facilitating meaningful experiences for people. I also love dancing and outdoor adventures. If I am moving my body, in nature, and/or connecting with people I love, I am in my happy place.

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I help people with complex histories deeply understand their own experiences and uncover their natural propensity to heal. I have over a decade of experience supporting individuals with issues relating to addiction, and mental health conditions. I have come to know that the common denominator within the individuals I have worked with is early childhood trauma.

I work from a client-centered perspective and am adaptable in finding what fits. I have extensive experience working with third-wave CBT approaches. I have extensive experience working with CBT approaches. I have training in Internal Family Systems therapy (Level 1) and use mindfulness and somatic practices in addition to talk therapy to help people resolve internal conflicts holding them back. I am receiving training in using EMDR and will be integrating this into my practice. 

I am a certified Complex Trauma Coach and Facilitator, and help people uncover underlying issues contributing to their behavior such as shame, grief, and codependency. I am well-versed in 12-step recovery. I am completing the final phase of a Master of Counselling, with a Bachelor of Psychology.

Working with Couples In therapy, I create a non-judgmental and healing space for clients to realize deep change. The therapeutic space can help couples take responsibility for unhelpful relationship dynamics and work towards healthier behaviours while experiencing more openness. This approach can help couples improve communication, de-escalate arguments and deepen intimacy. I am experienced working with issues of dependency and unhelpful compulsive behaviours, in addition to clinginess, distancing, and conflicting attachment styles. I work from the lens of Relational Life Therapy (level 1) and Internal Family Systems therapy.

I have always been interested in personal development and not being limited by one’s circumstances but rather finding ways to overcome those influences. I am blessed to have found a profession that utilizes these proclivities. I am naturally competitive, with a background in competitive swimming. Living a healthy life both physically and mentally is very important to me.

I have strong family and community values, a strong belief in justice, and an awareness of my privilege in society. I have learned the importance of serenity in life, and find this in nature. I find its beauty inspires creative expression. My free time is split between outdoor activities such as cycling and hiking, and indoor hobbies such as drawing, painting, and tattooing. I love animals of all kinds and also find joy in spending time with my two dogs and sphynx cat.

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You aren’t meant to go it alone. We make sense of ourselves through our connection with others. Learning to pay attention to your ways of being in this world, without judgment or shame, is modelled in healthy relating. Many of us haven’t experienced or seen healthy relationships. We find ourselves repeating behaviours we dislike or reacting to mistreatment. Relationships are as unique as the individuals engaged in them, meaning one-size-fits-all answers do not exist to resolve differences. Replacing prominent cultural beliefs that disrupt intimate connection and learning skills to be with discomfort can change everything for us.

My approach is rooted in experiential and relational-oriented somatic therapy. I specialize in trauma, childhood issues, anxiety, PTSD, and complex PTSD. I also specialize in couples and relationships with the lens of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). I offer a weekly process group for those looking to expand their relational skills in practice.

Being with you is the heart of therapy. Profound change happens in the present moment with all that we are, and were, being witnessed with care.

Outside of Therapy

As a white, able-bodied, non-binary person, I am constantly investigating my privileges and ways of being. I am a 5th generation settler and a 1st generation immigrant to so-called Canada. I am polyamorous and have been partnered for over 20 years. I have travelled extensively throughout my life and am actively learning to communicate through differences.​

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